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About Me

Before settling in England in 2010, I have lived in Pakistan, Peru, and mostly in Canada. I respect and value difference and diversity. I understand how culture, religious and spiritual beliefs, diversity of bodies, genders and relationships, makes us all unique. Through personal experience I understand complexities of Asian cultural values, roles, identity, pressure, and being a child of immigrants. As a parent, I can relate to issues surrounding pregnancy, birth, parenting, and juggling roles. 


My past work experience as a genetic counsellor in the NHS has included working with individuals, couples, and families for over 9 years.  I incorporate this knowledge and experience of genetic conditions, family dynamics, and teaching to support my work as a therapist.


I proudly re-trained as a Therapeutic Counsellor at DS Counselling Training in Kent and adhere to their high standards and professionalism in my work. I then undertook further training in Attachment based Psychotherapy from Optima Health Services. As an Attachment psychotherapist,  I am able to understand you, and the link of attachment styles and defences to your personal relationships. By exploring your early childhood, important attachment figures, you can understand yourself at a deeper level. My hope is to support you through your difficulties and help you to have a connection and understanding with yourself. This can create the process of change you hope to make during this time.

I am passionate about working with clients to support them on their unique journey. I have over 2 years experience as a therapist and am experienced in working with anxiety, depression, stress, bereavement and loss, gender identity, and self acceptance. My specialist interest and experience includes family and relationship problems, loss, miscarriage, baby loss, post natal depression, and genetics. I am experienced in working with individuals who have a child with complex medical needs, genetic diagnoses, and  terminal diagnoses. I also work creatively with neurodiverse clients. I have been working with Therapy Partners in Maidstone, Kent, to provide counselling to adults and young people. I am pleased to continue this work in my local community.


I look forward to speaking to you to understand how I can support you on your journey.

Online therapist, Uruj Anjum in her online private practice

My Approach

I am a Registered Member with the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and work within their ethical framework, so I can work safely and ethically with you.  I have a high regard for BACP values and aim to work with you with humility and care.  I provide one-to-one therapy online, which allows me to be flexible.


I am integrative in my approach and work with you to meet your needs. I specialize in Attachment Psychotherapy. This means a person-centred approach and Attachment Theory (AT) is at the core of my work. This helps me to create a safe, understanding space for you to explore your issues. I am adaptive and draw upon skills from other approaches where it benefits you like Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Transactional Analysis (TA) and Mindfulness.

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CPCAB Counselling Studies

Level 5 Integrating Attachment Based Psychotherapy in Clinical Practice, CPCAB

Optima Health Services- Completed June 2023


Level 4 CST Studies Therapeutic Counselling CPCAB

DS Counselling- Aylesford, Completed June 2022


Level 3 CST Studies CPCAB

Kent Adult Education- Tonbridge, Completed July 2020


Master of Science in Genetic Counselling

University of British Columbia, Canada, Class of 2010


Bachelor of Science in Cell and Molecular Biology

University of Toronto, Canada, Class of 2008

Training Courses:

Introduction to Couples Counselling, Therapy Partners

  • 3 hours training, 15/07/2023

Trauma Informed Therapy, Therapy Partners

  • 3 hours training, 10/12/2021


Couples Counselling, Maypole Project

  • 6 hours training, 29/11/2021

Group Facilitation, The Maypole Project

  • 2 hours training, 04/07/2022


CBT-e Eating Disorders with Claire Jordan, Therapy Partners

  • 8 hours training, 02/07/2022


Assisting Clients with Subsequent Pregnancies after Loss, The Foundation for Infant Loss Training

  • 8 hours training, 31/03/2022


Suicide Prevention, MIND

  • 3.5 hours training, 01/03/2022

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Accredited Practitioner Training, The Foundation for Infant Loss Training

  • 8 hours training, 22/01/2022


Working with families with children whose condition is palliative (focus on Battens Disease), Maypole Project

  • 3 hours training, 11/10/2021


Couples Counselling, Maypole Project

  • 6 hours training, 15/04/2021


Online and Telephone Counselling Course, Counselling Tutor

  • 80 hours training, 01/02/2021


Supporting Families Facing Loss, Maypole Project

  • 12 hours training, 22-23/10/2020

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